3Com Etherlink III is one of the most popular network cards for retro PCs.
It has a lot of versions and almost all of them work very well.
Some cards have a place for a ROM chip that can be used, for example, to load an XT-IDE BIOS (tested).
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I use one of these network cards on the Toshiba T3200SXC 386-class portable computer.
Etherlink III card with EPROM inserted.